About
Becoming Queen Lo was not a surprise...
I Was Born To Be A Domme.
On my first day of 7th grade at a brand new school, my teacher asked me to stand up and tell the class a little bit about myself. I proudly announced my name and that I had a “master’s degree… in boys.” Not much has changed.
I grew up in the American south, but the rigid morality of the Bible belt never appealed to me.
I always had a certain power over the opposite sex.
This power made me dangerous to the churchgoing, Southern belle society. I moved to California as a teenager, and even though I graduated with honors from a Christian University, by the time I earned that diploma I was certain I was moving in a very different direction.
I spent the next few years weaving my way through Africa and Southeast Asia, and found myself increasingly drawn to the practice of sacred sexuality. My conservative upbringing had attached unending shame and anxiety to all aspects of sex, but in Asia I learned a new paradigm. In this community, pleasure was beautiful. Sex was spiritual. And repression was poison. I began studying in Bali and working as a copywriter for sacred sexuality coaches. I was home.
And Then Everything Changed.
Suddenly the pandemic struck, and I found myself on an unexpected plane ride back to the States to join my family in isolation. I was in the midst of trying to grow my copywriting career when a good friend of mine encouraged me that this was the perfect time to introduce my own voice. So from lockdown I launched my podcast, “Thy Queendom Come,” a space where I could untangle all I was experiencing and learning about sex, ethical non-monogamy, BDSM, and living a life focused on pleasure.
You Responded.
You shared your own stories of pain and exploration, and the fantasies you’d never felt comfortable revealing. You connected with my failures and admitted your own. And you invited me into amazing, vulnerable places that changed my life. One of those invitations was from a listener who became my first sub. He asked if I’d like to observe him in a professional Domme session in LA.
And Here We Are.
In that session, I finally saw a path to connect all the pieces of me and channel them into positive outcomes, a legit force for good. The magnetic sensuality that had gotten me into trouble since my teens. The years spent studying a different model of pleasure, free from restrictiveness and shame. The sublime joy I took in mind fucking men from every corner of the planet. All of that could be fused together and intentionally focused to actually help people. I was smitten. I had clarity.
The sublime joy I took in mind fucking men from every corner of the planet…
I had become Queen Lo.
Today I spend much of my time working with thoughtful subs who are dedicated to their own growth. Season two of the podcast is now streaming, with new episodes released every week. And my team is currently hard at work planning our first Queendom Events for 2025.
Who knew I could assist in making the world such a better place… just by putting men on their knees?