Thy Queendom Come

What’s It Mean To “Serve” Me?

Queen Lo offers a dose of tough love to the significant number of subs who seem to believe that "serving" just means spending money on a session. She gives practical examples of what service actually looks like in BDSM (and beyond) and why it can be so powerful when done intentionally.

Thy Queendom Come

What's It Mean To "Serve" Me?

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"What’s It Mean To “Serve” Me? "

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Queen Lo offers a dose of tough love to the significant number of subs who seem to believe that “serving” just means spending money on a session. She gives practical examples of what service actually looks like in BDSM (and beyond) and why it can be so powerful when done intentionally..

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